I hear from a lot of people who are curious about cum eating. Some only want to fantasize about it, others want to be told to do it, still others want to have someone experience this with them. Any or all of those options are just fine. I do enjoy making someone a successful cum eater! One common question revolves around the straight man who swallows his own cum. Some want to know if a woman will think ‘less’ of him if he licks it up. Others want to know if he’s still manly if he does this naughty, taboo thing.

To the straight man who wants to swallow his own cum

Maybe you have questions or are worried. That’s okay, I like questions and I also like giving commands to make you eat your own cum. But, here’s the direct answer to your worry. You don’t have to be gay to eat your own load. You have to be kinky, adventurous, obedient, slutty or maybe all of those descriptions and more!

The voice in your head that says, I can’t eat my own cum!

Femdom phone sex with Experienced Mistress OliviaAh, I know that lil voice, whispering … “It’s hot while I’m jerking off but once I cum, I lose interest in eating cum.” Do you hear that voice? Most straight men do. That voice is restrictive societal programming that warns, “That’s not what real men do.” If you’re into humiliation, then I might say that as part of the scene, but that’s not what I’m talking about here. You’ve been conditioned to fear so many things: pleasure, control, and submission. You have been told what is “manly” and what isn’t. You need help. I get it.

Here’s the truth I’ve learned from years of talking with men like you – smart, successful, usually straight and often married – who call me to ask about cum eating. The truth is, You are attracted to the taboo and naughty cum eating fantasies. That means, regardless of that negative voice, you have the potential to be a cum slut! Wheee! I take your curiosity and reprogram you.

Mistress reprograms you to accept eating your own cum

First, I give you a reality check. I’ll point out that the version of masculinity that you’ve been sold is one-dimensional and boring. You’ve been conditioned to shoot your load and maybe look but not lick. But, that taboo label is what makes this so hot. It’s naughty. And don’t we all love to be naughty? I know I do.

Second, we will talk about shame. There is good shame (erotic humiliation) and shame that isn’t fun. I’m going to address the ‘shame that isn’t fun’ part. Maybe you think cum eating is only for the woman, or gay men, or that giving in to your kinky desires threatens your identity. Especially as a straight man. But consider this:

Shame is learned; freedom is chosen

When I coach a man to eat his own cum, you experience the freedom of breaking the bad parts of your societal programming. Swallowing your own cum doesn’t make you gay. Let me be very clear: desire, fantasy and submission are not sexuality. These feelings are human feelings. Society puts these limits and labels on you but you don’t have to accept it.

Cum eating and masculinity

This desire doesn’t have anything to do with your perceived masculinity. It’s not about orientation (gay, straight or bi). Learning to eat your own cum for me is about awakening. This is your time to choose: boring or bold.

Are you ready to choose?

Repeat after me:  “This is my pleasure, my body, my choice, my Mistress – even if swallowing my own cum goes against everything I was taught. I choose to experience life fully.”

When you’re ready, I’m here to be your guild, confident or strict Mistress. No matter my role, know that you are safe here; you can explore without judgement.

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia

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