I love doing 2 Mistress sessions with my friends here. As a Femdom, I know how much I enjoy showing off a special submissive. My friend Ms Erika feels the same way and this is the story about a treasured submissive who ended up eating his own cum for his Mistress.
First time eating his own cum
Hands is a fantastic sub because he loves to slip into subspace and serve his Mistress, Ms Erika. He didn’t know that I was going to be the 2nd Mistress of a 2 Mistress session. Now, he knows that Erika and I do The Weekly Hot Spot podcast together, so he likely had an idea that I might be the 2nd Mistress, but Femdoms have delightfully wicked minds so he couldn’t be totally sure until the session started.
Cum eating and submission
Ms Erika and I both know that the desire to submit to your Goddess is powerful. In fact, many men don’t want to eat cum but they will do it when in subspace and ordered by Mistress. Afterwards, they’ll often ask, Why do I want to eat my own cum for her?
The mindset of a submissive man
Hands gives a wonderful peek inside the mind of a submissive man. He identifies as a service submissive. He’s one of the subs that Ms Erika and I talk about in the podcast episode titled: So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?
“Having been into the kink of submission, to Dominant Women in the “Femdom” sexual control sense of it, for as long as I have been, the curiosity about eating “my” cum has certainly become planted in my thoughts. Because it’s naughty for sure, because its taboo, yes, that too. Although, not so taboo as it once was, as it has become more mainstream within the Femdom male submissive dynamic. So there is certainly an increased exposure to it as well. But, I don’t crave it, because I love it, so I won’t and can’t do it on my own.
Great description of a submissive nature
My curiosity about it is founded totally in the submissive nature of it. Where the basis of the act is rooted entirely in Her will and desires that I do “for Her”. whenever and for whatever Her reasons are. If she directs/orders, me to eat my cum after She has permitted me to spill it, or I have spilled it accidentally. And, there is an established expectation of my obedience to do as told. Then it is for Her pleasure and reinforcing proof of Her power to make me do so, that my curiosity and fascination of eating my cum lies.
Why would he agree to eat his own cum?
Ahhhh, that is the crux of the matter. Submission is about giving up his control and letting her be in charge. This is a fantastic example of power exchange. He has the power to say no but when he is told do to something he does it.
So I pretty much knew once I found myself in a trusted and established D/s relationship. That if She ordered it, the taste of my own cum, in my mouth as I consumed it for Her was going to be an inevitable act of my submission. Even if She made me spill it into a glass or on a plate so that I have to look at first. The usual backing out point for a guy, I could see it as Her deepening the level of my submission to it and a test of my resolve to still obey Her wishes.
What happens next? You’ll find out!
I agree that eating one’s own cum while on a call with a wonderful LDW mistress is definitely an act of submission. It is a wonderful feeling to submit to a mistress or goddess and prove to her that you are in fact a sissy submissive pindicked beta loser.
laughs and laughs ….
Now, eating cum on a call doesn’t ALWAYS mean the cum eater is a beta loser.
In fact, I’m thinking of a cum junkie who is AMAZING and a fantastic erotic partner.
But ….. for YOUUUUUUUU …. lil misssy Cindy Lollicock you DO need to always demonstrate (in all ways) that you are in fact a sissy submissive pindicked beta loser!
Well said Hands!!! Congratulations and welcome to the cum club! lol. I agree with everything you said. It’s such an intimate thing too between the sub and the Mistress when that happens. It takes the relationship to a higher level and really demonstrates the submission to the Mistress in a real and tangible way. I LOVE that! Well done!
Thank you so much for your comment Slut pie …. I agree with you in that submission is one thing (and that’s awesome) and to really bring submission to the “next level” there has to be a test … or maybe not a test exactly but something has to be DIFFICULT or challenging.
Now, that’s a fine line to walk as the Domme because I have you really know my sub – what and how to push, etc. Ms Erika knows hands really well and ummmmmmmmm knows what and how to PUSH.
grins
Thank You so much for this insightful blog post Mistress Olivia.
And Thank You for being instrumental in making me eat my cum for the first time.
(((( EDIT -this is such a great comment, it needs a whole blog post! Thank you Michele! )))
I was so happy to finally submit to doing this one task for my Mistress.
Obeying Mistress felt so much better than the guilt of dissappointing Mistress.
I love this comment so much … and, Michele, I think your words will really resonate with others which is why I ‘redacted’ the middle part of your comment.
Look for that in a blog post!
And you are such a good girl!
grins