Let’s see if you can relate to this. Cum eating is hot because it’s taboo and naughty, The build-up is intense. The desire to eat your own cum is overwhelming.  And then … POOF … your orgasm hits and that desire disappears. My friend, CumEatingMan, told me about his experience with post orgasm mood drop and how he now licks up every drop!

Don’t fall into the precum trap

Desire can peak too early when you fall into the precum trap. CumEatingMan articulates what’s going on when he said:

“It is so easy to lick up the precum while working up to that orgasm but once the orgasm hits the mood shifts for most people.”

Precum is slippery with a mild, slightly salty or faintly sweet taste. It is way less intense and bitter than semen. It lets you feel naughty with the anticipation of doing this taboo thing. BUT, once you cum (and have cum to lick up) the refractory period kicks in and you are in PNC land.

Post Nut Clarity and cum eating

PNC is a chemical reality. For most people it is not insurmountable obstacle, but it is something to consider. And the drop isn’t gradual, it’s immediate. Suddenly the “ohhhh it’s sexy naughty” changes to “why did I even think that was hot?”

Where there’s a will there’s a way and rest assured this Experienced Mistress will find that way. CumEatingMan agrees that there is a no fail cum eating position. I’ve mentioned this before on the blog  and it works! Here’s why:

“There are several ways to get the cum past those lips but the best way to actually do it is to not have a choice.”

The legs over your head method means that your cum will spurt right on your face. All you need to do is open your mouth! See how easy that is?

Bypass post orgasm mood drop

CumEatingMan mentions one of my favorite activities, telling some to make cum cubes. I’ve usually done with the dedicated cum eaters but CumEatingMan made me think of this in a new way:

“The only other way to have a greater guarantee of ending up with cummy breath is to save cum in some sort of container … so that post nut clarity doesn’t play a part.”

This is where your Mistress comes in. I am successful in moving someone from being a frustrated failure to finally lick up his own cum. While we are talking about cum eating, CumEatingMan makes a great point about the role of a Mistress in all sorts of kinky, naughty activities:

“Doing it completely on your own is the toughest way to follow through unless you are a dedicated cum slut. Most will ask for a Mistress to guide them.”

Are you tired of losing your nerve at the critical moment? Maybe it’s time for you to stop trying to ‘make’ yourself do it. When you stop relying on willpower and start relying on my voice and cum eating instructions you are pretty much assured of success. When you’re ready, let’s do a session and have some fun.

Until we connect, take a listen to this episode of the BDSM kink podcast I do with Ms Erika. We have a great time and we also use The Weekly Hot Spot podcast to help you clarify your own desires. Here’s a link to the episode where we talk about the difference between the fantasy of cum eating versus the reality. It’s okay if you don’t want to move to reality but take a listen and then decide. When it’s time for you to take the plunge (pun intended) I’ll be here to help you.

Your Experienced Mistress,

Ms Olivia