Wanting It
Maybe you can relate to this dilemma. You want to eat your own cum. You fantasize about it…imagine how it will taste and feel to have it in your mouth. But when it comes down to actually DOING it, you just can’t make it happen.
Ms Olivia and I had a session with a nice guy named tom a few weeks ago. He came right out and called himself a “cum eating coward”. That had both of us laughing so hard, we could barely get it out that we intended to write about him in this blog. But I think he understood. And apparently tom subscribes to this blog, so he will be reading this soon enough.
So Many Of Them
Most of our cum eaters started out as cowards. They just could not bring themselves to follow through with eating their own cum. Maybe you are stuck in that rut yourself.
Not to worry! That is where your Mistress comes into the picture. You see, when you have a Mistress on the phone with you, coaxing you along, it becomes much easier to follow through and eat your cum. And if you have a real relationship with her, even better.
Pleasing Your Mistress
When you want to please your Mistress, the thought of letting her down is abhorrent. As a submissive man, you would do anything to please her…to show her that you are devoted and obedient. So the most important step in overcoming that cowardice is to establish a relationship with a Mistress who you truly want to please.
So try a few. Try a lot. Just find the Mistress who pops your cork. Then feel the difference when you get to that point in your session. You know the one. Right before you cum. You are wanting to eat that hot, creamy cum, but this is the moment where things have gone awry in the past. Now that you have a Mistress you truly want to please and hate the idea of disappointing, you find yourself bringing that fresh cum right up to your mouth.
Success At Last
You could be successful the first time, under these circumstances. You might eat a lick or two, but freeze at the whole load. No worries. You will have broken through the barrier. Next time you are having fetish phone sex with your Mistress, you will eat more…maybe even all of it!
I suspect you will surprise yourself. But your Mistress will expect it and have a knowing smile on her lips. The surprise for her would have been if you did NOT eat that load of fresh jizz.
Let’s hear about your barrier breaking session. What finally got you to open up and eat your own cum?
Hello sweet Mistress,
i certainly agree with galaxy and little luke – i really want to do it for you, to take that fresh cum in my mouth. As your submissive it would simply be disrespectful to you as Mistress to not do so.
i think the point about a relationship with a Mistress is key. Because then it moves beyond the fantasy of eating cum on your own. With your Mistress, it is not simply about your fantasy, it is about doing it for her just at the point where your cum eating fantasy gives way to release.
The reality of my submissive relationship with Mistress Violet is part of me and not limited to that single moment. It is a wonderful devotion to be able to offer her, a clear statement of submission, proud to be a cum eater for her.. i can only look forward to the next time and the taste i have cum to crave.
The best next thing for the person with a cum eating fantasy is to have Mistress Violet take you higher.
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I love this comment Susan! And, I have to say, I really love your devotion to your Mistress! As you probably know, I think Ms Violet is amazing! Thanks so much for leaving your comment!
Thank you susan and Ms Olivia! The relationship between a Mistress and her submissive is the core to everything. There is no question about that. Thank you for bringing that up susan. And Ms Olivia…you know I adore you. xox
Happy New Years Eve Violet!
This lovely post brings back great memories of our sessions together (smile)!
I love the point of having that relationship with your mistress, very important for me. You helped me past my barrier by having that ‘cork popping’ connection. I remember telling you about my desire and you made it so fun, the barrier was gone and I really wanted to please and share it with you!! It was your ability to help me relax and have naughty fun that pushed me through it.
I still can only do it with you watching though, but that is really the best part (grinning)
Reading this makes me very excited about doing it for you very soon!
If you have not broken through, I highly suggest Violet as she is true magic in helping a guy reach amazing erotic highs you may have only dreamed possible!!
Oooh…cork popping connection. Or was that cock popping? *laugh* Whatever it is, it is extremely exciting. I have to agree Galaxy. The barrier you had is gone. *looking around* Completely out of sight. I call that…mission accomplished!! You are so much fun and I really appreciate you sharing your experiences here Galaxy.
Yet another well written blog, Miss Violet. i think what made me break that barrier is knowing it would be a major way of showing submission and devotion to You. This isn’t something i think i would just do on my own. Knowing i am being obedient by complying with this task makes it worth whiled. The experience, although somewhat humiliating, pleases me because i know it pleases You and is yet another way to show my submissiveness to You. To borrow a slogan…”It’s the real thing. Enjoy!”
Was that it little luke? I remember how much you wanted to be a cum eater. So now that you do it for me regularly, you find it a bit humiliating. That is not necessarily a bad thing, is it? *smile* You please me greatly. Always so sweet, so submissive, and so very respectful. All qualities I admire in a sub of mine.
*blush* i am glad i please your greatly and hope i continue to do so. It is not a bad thing to be a bit humiliated. It emphasizes my submissiveness to You. 🙂
You’re RIGHT little luke…..I personally don’t think a little humiliation with your submission is a bad thing! In fact, I love that EDGE to the whole power exchange! Edge play like humiliation DOES increase submissiveness. Just think, you get Mistress enjoyment and laughter….and a deepening of your submission. That certainly is a win-win situation to My mind! ~smiles~
Ahh hello Violet.
This brings back some great memories with you (big smile)!
I love your point of getting to know your mistress in a relationship. That definitely helps me to this day.
The point for me was that I tried a few other ladies and then I called you. We definitely had that firework spark and you just made it fun. This took away all the failed attempts from my mind and I really wanted to do it for you!
I certainly dont have the problem anymore, but can only do it in session with you. I still feel so hot and naughty when you tell me to eat it for you, it makes me shiver right now(smiling)!!
I can attest that you are very skilled in this area and can help anyone who really wants to push through the barrier!
Great timing as well for the post for resolutions of actually getting it in your mouth this year or next. (grin)!
Talk to you soon Violet.
But Galaxy, you were not a coward. You just had not made the connection with a Mistress that you required to go through with eating your own cum. The fact that we have a spark between us cannot be denied. It’s like a fireworks display! You are the poster boy for cum eaters. The way you moan, dance, and curse softly as you devour your cum. Oh my! Thank you for the testi-moan-y. *grin*