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There’s something about erotic humiliation. It’s counter intuitive. But, much of cock control is the opposite of what you think it should be. You know that you shouldn’t like it…you’re being humiliated….but tell that to your cock that is standing straight out, rock hard. (No matter what pathetic size you have, I know you can FEEL the thrill of a rock hard penis). CLICK HERE to listen to this blog post.
Different kinds of humiliation
There are all sorts of different ways to humiliate you. One sexy humiliation technique is using assignments, like this one that has you all dressed up in the most humiliating way! Other ways to check to make sure you’re doing your humiliation assignment is to put your on cam while you’re doing it! This is a blog post I did about an erotic humiliation assignment on cam and why that is so sexually arousing!
Sexual arousal for you, entertainment for us!
And, we do adore laughing at your antics! Oh yes, sometimes we can be mean and strict …. but generally we keep it playful and fun! Because you DO make us laugh as Ms Violet talks about in this blog post about how Lovely Ladies laugh at horny men!
Coerced to eat cum can be humiliating and so exciting!
Jizzhead talked about combining cum eating and humiliation on our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire. ~laughs~ And when I asked his permission to post part of his comment from my poll about cum eating, he said he got HARD just thinking about people reading about his self fellatio habits! ~smiles~
“Yes, I do it — and afterward, I’m always like, “Fuck…I can’t believe I just did that!” My brain clears and I tell myself, “I’ll never do that again.” Yeah, right! After a few days, I’ve got ‘cum-for-brains’ again…not thinking straight… and I’m horny all over! It’s a catch 22 — I don’t want to swallow my own cum, but I *really* crave that humiliation.”
We do hope that you’re reading that while IN POSITION to give a self facial!
Now, let’s hear from you! What is the need for you? Is it submission? Erotic humiliation? How do you describe your cum eating fantasies?
I’m looking forward to reading your comments
Ms Olivia
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Awwww, little luke! And, such a tasty recipe it is! Submission and humiliation and a load of cum! That’s the perfect recipe for you! Thanks for leaving your comment!
For me, it is a recipe of submission with a cup of humiliation mixed in.
Mistress…for me, it’s easier to do all at once, natiurally. I don’t love the taste, but I love the act of doing it to please my Mistress Violet and demonstrate my submissiveness. And that it’s a bit humiliating, and that I have to do it if I ever want a release. Of course, I could hardly refuse whatever she wanted in howi eat it so I have to put her wishes ahead of my preferences. She has surprised me with having me cum in my panties then lick it all up. I’m sure she has other plans regarding how to train me further.
OH I like that idea…..even a special spoon. One just for cum eating and then make it quite the ceremony! As it should be to do the ritual tribute behavior!
Great post and comments. i fully agree with Rob’s above, particularly with the notion of permanently expanded boundaries. In eating my cum for Mistress Violet i have come (cum) to love it because of it is an unambiguous declaration of submission, of giving myself over fully, to the point of identifying myself as her devoted cum eating submissive. It is a way of saying the i have no boundaries to the ways i will embrace my devotion to her. i have been partial to a wine glass with a grateful toast but would accept any direction. What about extending it a bit by eating it a bit at a time with a spoon and requiring the submissive to ask for permissions for each spoonful.
Those are really great questions Rob! We’ll do our best to answer these (and other questions) in future blog posts!
These are fantastic topics and thank you for writing!
Ms Olivia
All the comments reflect good perspectives as to why a sub will eat his own cum for his Mistress. In some cases, when you are simply denied or teased for so long, you’ll do just about anything to earn release, and this is a good way to earn release I think. After my week long edging assignment for Ms Violet, I will probably agree to most anything to ensure I get to release, regardless of whether I was already being required to eat my cum.
If i may, i was curious about the entrainment aspect for you, that your blog mentioned. Do most, or all Mistresses require it? And why do you require or enjoy it from your subs? And is there a favorite way you like to be entertained with cum eating? I’ve licked it from my hand, sucked it off a dildo, and out of the crotch of my panties. Others use a wine or shot glass. What is the most entertaining to a Mistress? How can I better entertain, or even humiliate myself for my Mistress and her entrainment ?
For me to it’s provide entertainment. Overall it’s not so much entertainment as it is me getting off while giving a sexy woman pleasure. When it is physical sexual pleasure, great! When it is restricted to phone, or cam fun, then entertainment will do. Maybe I’m doing something that excites my mistress, maybe something that turns her on, or maybe it’s something that she chuckles at just because she said to do it, and I did.
If humiliating me gets her off, then it gets me off.
YES! Thank you wellspanked for articulating another aspect to humiliation….sometimes it’s a level of service that you’re willing (or able) to suffer for our entertainment! That’s a really good point, thanks for leaving that comment!
Ms Olivia…you have really touched on the several aspects to cum eating, as I see it…the act of submission, to do something you may not otherwise do, the eroticism humiliation of performing this in front of your Mistress, and of course, just making a fantasy come true. To me, there are few other acts that indicate control by my Mistress Violet than submitting to her wish that I eat all my cum. And erotic humiliation, whether eating cum, wearing panties, otherwise appearing/performing for one or more Mistresses, or performing tasks, are all wonderfully arousing, especially when done “against your will”. I find it particularly interesting how having my boundaries pushed in this way, through things I might not do otherwise, and having to do them in front of Mistress Violet, actually results in permanently expanded boundaries…such that once was rare is now the norm. For me, that includes cum eating and wearing of panties. And if I could suck my own cock, I would, if that was Mistress’ wish for me, it would be a bit humiliating, I’m sure, but that’s part of the attraction.
I love your description Rob! Ms Violet is an expert at sensual boundary pushing! And that subtle tension (or not so subtle) that you’re feeling is the BEST isn’t it? From the point of view of a Mistress, it’s a delightful sensation to feel, watch, hear and experience the boundaries of a male submissive expanding. And, yes, boundaries are usually elastic (with the exception of ‘hard limit’ of Dominance submission play). This is yet another way to tease you (and for us, why it’s like catnip!) ~smiles~