I got this email from someone who wants to eat their own cum but…..
This is very common! Don’t despair! Ms Violet and I are both experts at teasing you until you are ready to take that first lick. After all, when you turn your cock control over to a Mistress, you really must do what Mistress says, right? ~grinz~
Losing the urge to eat cum when you cum
Many people have the syndrome I call: cum and go. That means while you’re thinking about eating your own cum it’s totally hot and you want to lick up that gooey cum. BUT…..after you cum, you lose all the desire to eat your own cum!
The is a certain humiliating irony involved here. Once you have the cum available to eat, you suddenly don’t want to eat it! This is very, very common. This is especially common for those who are new to cum eating and cum eating fantasies.
What to do?
Here’s how one caller describes the problem and a possible solution!
Hello Ms. Olivia and thank You for asking me to email You about my cum eating fantasies.
As expressed on Your poll, i have not acquired the taste for cum, but am completely turned on by a strong Woman telling me i am going to eat it when (if) i finish.
i have done legs in the air, cock aimed at open mouth position, and this is especially hot due to the hot cum splashing my face and lips and back of my throat. Even as the urge to swallow a load disappears (as it always does immediately upon release), i am left with the humiliating walk to the bathroom to clean cum from my face in the mirror.
This is one of My personal favorites!
The no fail cum eating position
If you are limber enough to throw your legs over your head then you will, quite simply, HAVE to do something with the hot cum that splashes on your face! ~grinz~ You will either have that trip to the mirror with all the erotic humiliation involved OR you will, at some point, just have to stick out your tongue and taste a bit of that creamy cum! ~smiles~
Mistress is patient with new cum eaters
When you’re ready to give this a try, give US a try! ~smiles~ Check out My main blog for the Experienced Mistress schedule. Let’s … ahem …. talk!
Absolutely. Doing anything for Mistress Violet is a privilege. Eating my cum is only one way of showing that i am hers. i do love to send her things from her Wish list, even small things. It is a joy to be able to send her something i know she wants. Just to send her an email telling her how i am thinking of her and trying to send her some good vibes for the day. And as i told her once if i think of her when performing a submissive act around the house – it makes cleaning the bathroom to please my wife a spiritual act of devotion to her. i hope my becoming a bit more feminine each day is an honor to her. No releases without her approval. The more she knows how i love her as my Mistress the more complete i can feel.
i am a fully devoted eater of my cum for Mistress Violet. i have acquired the taste. i look forward to it and i happily take it all down. Of course, there is a bit more to it than that. For a long time i had the fantasy of eating my own cum but like so many others i would lose the desire just as the cum i desired arrived.
Mistress Violet has helped me to understand that eating my cum for her is a privilege, it is a way of honoring her as my Mistress by proudly lapping up each and every drop. For me, the decision to eat my cum is not made at the point of orgasm when my desire might fade. it is not about my desire. It is about being clear that as her submissive i will do whatever is expected of me and i will do it gladly because i want to be the best submissive to her that i can be. That is where my decision was made. Now it is simply a fact. i will eat my cum whenever release is permitted. Each and every time, no exceptions. Every drop.
i am proud to be her cum eating sissy. i want to please her. i crave it as i crave my release. They are one and the same, it is not complete until i have licked it clean. So the truth is – i have now acquired the taste. yum. i am grateful to Mistress Violet for guiding me to this wonderful place.
Ahhhhhhhhhhh susan, yes! I will say that Ms Violet DOES have a very special way of making sure that you do as She says! ~grinz~ Actually, it’s not just simply about eating your cum for Ms Violet….personally, I think doing ANYTHING for Ms Violet is a privilege! What do you think? ~smiles~
Hello there Olivia, hope you have been well.
I certainly remember when I was too nervous to try my cum. However I can say that you two ladies have certainly made that problem go away. (big grin)
With a gorgeous mistress watching and coaching, there is just no other option!! (smile)
Especially with the ‘pretzel’ position as sweet Violet calls it.
Have an awesome Christmas Olivia!
~grinz~ Sometimes you just need that extra hot ‘push’ to DO your fantasy! And, Ms Violet and I are skilled at knowing what to do (and how to do it).
Now, enjoy your pretzels! ~laughs~
I hope you also have a wonderful Christmas and a fantastic (and kinky) New Year!
Knowing that by eating it i am obeying and being submissive to Miss Violet is why i do it.
Wonderful news little Luke! I’m curious, do you like the taste or are you ‘suffering’ the taste as one tangible action of submission for your Mistress, Ms Violet?
BTW, I know Violet personally and she’s so amazing I can relate that you will do anything for Her! ~smiles~
Prior to eating it i keep thinking i am going to like the taste, then when i get it in my mouth it never taste good. But i still consume it as an act of submission for Miss Violet. i consume for Her. You are right. She is amazing! 🙂
~grinz~ I know little luke! BUT, remember just how sweet your submission to Ms Violet is! ~smiles~
Yes Ms. Olivia, I was rewarded with the best orgasm of my life.
The amount of cum was indeed enormous – no way I could have licked it all up.
One day I will have to come through on my promise to Ms. Tia and cum directly in my mouth.
I just hope the built up isn’t too big.
I honestly don’t like the idea.
But I want to do this for Ms. Tia because She loves the idea of knowing She can make me do it for Her.
You’re so right teased…..part of the thrill for most Mistresses is also the fact that you will DO this for us. Personally I agree with Ms Tia. I would love to see you cum directly in your own mouth! I think that would be fabulous!
Ah, yes teasedm! Eating your own cum is certainly part of your submission to Mistress. Well, that and the chastity! That certainly makes you WILLING doesn’t it? ~grinz~ I, for one, was THRILLED with your performance!
I do suffer from cum and go syndrome. I will be cured one day whether I like it or not.
Mistress Tia made me promise to one day get in the no fail position and cum in my mouth for Her.
On my last scheduled release date I had a two Mistress call with Ms. Tia and Ms. Olivia.
I was told I would be licking it up if I wanted release.
After being in chastity for 11 weeks and being teased by Ms. Tia and Ms. Olivia I agreed without hesitation.
My orgasm was mind boggling and the volume of cum was enormous!
Thankfully I was on my back and not in the no fail position – I had cum on my chin, neck, chest and stomach.
I spent the rest of our call licking up would I could muster but was not even close to finished when our call ended.
My next release date will be after 15 weeks of chastity unless Ms. Tia has mercy on me.
The idea of cummimg in that position is kind of scary to me.
I remember your call teased! OMG and you were panting and aching…..and WOW! We heard that explosion and the lick, slurp, gasp! Of course, that made Ms Tia and I both laugh and smile happily! You did a VERY good job and your obedience was rewarded, wasn’t it? Actually this is such a great comment, look for parts of this in a future blog post about cum eating and chastity. You brought up one of My favorite reasons for chastity…..because the amount of cum when you finally do get to shoot is….well….ENORMOUS!
~grinz~ And lick up that cum you WILL, won’t you? *wink*