When you just can’t eat your own cum
You want to lick it up. You are massively aroused by the thought of cum eating. It’s naughty and taboo. But … you just can’t actually DO it.
Ahhhh, you have what I call the “cum and go syndrome.” What’s that you say? It’s when you want to eat cum until you actually cum and have semen to lick up! Don’t worry, this is very common. You’re not alone in your desires and frustrations. Listen to my voice where I give you a peek into how I handle someone who loses the desire to eat cum once he has cum to eat.
He wants to eat his own cum
I’m emailing with someone right now. He needs a cum coach. Sometimes It helps to create a scene where you know you will be coerced and have no choice but to lick up that creamy, gooey cum. There’s a reason why coerced cum eating stories are so hot.
Whether I use a story or CEI will depend on what works best for you. Remember ,each person is an individual so being your cum coach means that I create an environment that will make you successful.
Here’s what I’m setting up for this caller. Our exchange started with this email:
I read your blog on cum eating and have tried and failed so many times.
CEI aka cum eating instructions
I wrote back, reassuring him that he’s not alone in his failed attempts to eat his own cum. Then I gave instructions before our call set for the next evening. I think the pre-call instructions are often very important with this fetish. Here is part of what I told him to do:
Between now and then — I want you to EDGE but do not cum.
10 TIMES — you can do this fast or slow, in several sittings or all at once
send me links if you want to watch porn so I see what you’re watching.
Cum eating porn
I love getting porn links from you because I can see what you’re watching. That gives me more control over my instructions and techniques. I also get to see some amazing new cum shot porn! He sent several links and I have one in mind as I’m writing this blog.
I laughed when I got this reaction from him:
omg 24 more hours, i’m already having contractions in my sissy clit
Well, of course you are! And that arousal will only get more intense as time goes on. I think orgasm control, tease and denial and even chastity do wonders to … ahem … inspire you to obey Mistress.
There are many ways for a Mistress to coerce or encourage cum eating. Check out this audio encouraging cum eating
He wants to cum. He needs to cum.
The denial is working. It always does. Just read how horny he is!
it’s been 3 days since I jerked off, i’m already going crazy
No orgasm until you obey your Mistress
What works with someone who can’t eat cum? For most, it’s a combo of encouragement, threats, control and timing. I’ll keep you posted on all the reluctant cum eaters turned into cum addicts. Let’s talk about how you can do it too!
Your Experienced Mistress,
Ms Olivia
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That I’ve read some of your cum-eating blog posts, Mistress Olvia.
But that’s just a dodge. The confession I am even LESS eager to talk about is that I broke my word to you this morning.
I spilled some of your semen, Miss Olivia.
(Part of) me wants to complain that it’s “not my fault” but the truth is I was playing with my cock.
I must have had a lighter “trigger” than I expected though! I was not playing with myself very much, I didn’t feel the sensations of a building orgasm. My fingers felt suddenly slick and I looked down at myself expecting precum…but it was thick and white and oozing, not ejaculating.
I’m not sure how I stopped myself, but I did. I felt guilty.
THIS is new for me! I felt like I had spilled something that belongs to YOU.
Somehow this is quite different for me than playing in a fantasy.
I’m a man and should be able to play with my own penis! Also in our conversation I surrendered control of it to you.
That’s probably it, then: I’m a man who does not WANT to play with my own penis. I keep fantasizing that there is a Lady who wants to play with it because she wants to play with me. I’m beginning to accept my reality that, for me, she lives only in fantasy.
I began to write about eating my own cum as brownie icing, in the story I sent you, long before I listened to your podcast or began reading your blogs. When I heard it, it definitely made me key in closer! I did have the thought of “cleaning up my mess” this morning when I realized what I had done.
I couldn’t bring myself to lay on the floor and do that; I settled for a washcloth.
But I did make an agreement with you, and then broke it this morning, and I apologize for spilling some of your semen, Miss Olivia. I will do better moving forward.
That sounds like a ruined orgasm. Have you ever had a ruined orgasm? That’s also pretty great because there is ejaculate, but you stay horny because it’s not a regular orgasm orgasm.
Do you know the term ruined?
Ms Olivia, Your methods do work at turning a man into a cum eater.
After a number of attempts at trying to make me eat my cum my Mistress Tia enlisted You help.
First Mistress Tia put me in extended chastity with weekly tease and denial calls. During which I had to promise to eat my cum when I would be eventually allowed a release.
Then Mistress Tia set up a two Mistress appointment with You to make sure I obeyed and ate my cum.
After You and Tia edged, teased and denied my for a good long time I had to promise to finish every drop in exchange for being allowed release.
I had no choice but to comply. I couldn’t possibly disobey Mistress Tia with another Mistress present.
You even made me beg to eat cum and to always eat my cum. You laughed telling me I would have cum breath all day and a load in my stomach and made me beg for it.
Finally, at my wits end, I was ordered to cum.
My orgasm was tremendous and plentiful.
You and Mistress Tia giggled while You listened to me lick it up – adding in that cum eating would be a requirement for all future orgasm when Mistress allowed.
I have been a cum eater ever since.
There you GO! That’s a perfect way to ensure that you become the cum eater you were meant to be !
grins